SWAMIJI’S BIRTHDAY SATSANG 17.11.2004
Dear Divine Souls
As I have often told you, we will certainly not live for more than
a hundred years. Bearing this in mind, I expect that you all will
strive to increase the effect that the Divine will have in your
lives. It is essential to develop your spiritual life.
Nowadays, everyone has a personal mobile telephone and everywhere
there are satellites. When people telephone each other, they always
hear, “Please try again later, the line is busy.” In
the same way, your lives are also very busy! However, you do not
really know why you have made your life so busy. You may be busy
with particular things but sometimes you make yourselves busy for
no real reason. If you always make yourself busy, then your life
will be full of tension. I don’t like you to be so tense.
I feel that you should always be free. Only when you make yourself
free will your mind be relaxed and peaceful.
How can you be free? Do not always think that what you think should
happen. Stop expecting that what you wish will happen. It is great
and good to have a human life. You can look after and live in this
body for up to one hundred years but do not just finish your life
by only educating yourself, marrying, having some children and dying.
Don’t just live like that, the way that everyone else does.
This has been happening for the past 25,000 years. At least this
generation can think deeply about their lives and the meaning of
life.
The great saints, siddhas and incarnations of the Divine who lives
in the past did not want to meet ordinary people because they disturbed
them. They reasoned that they did not want to waste their time giving
their advice to you and teaching you because they thought that you
would not follow it - because you all want to enjoy the material
life. It was a waste of time for them. However, Hinduism is a precious
religious path because it does not restrict spiritual development
to monks, nuns and priests. It teaches that you can experience enlightenment
even if you are married and have several children. Nevertheless,
it does teach that if you are married and too attached to your family,
this will disturb your path to enlightenment. If you think, “This
is my child, my child”, you will not develop and you will
not allow the child to develop either. This is a great disturbance
for you. If you have a son and he has taken up a profession, say
as an engineer, then you have to allow him to make his own decisions.
His decision may be right or wrong, but you should not force your
ideas on him. Parents never like to allow their children to decide
for themselves but I want to tell today’s generation to allow
their children to make their own decisions.
You are all from different countries. I was born in Sri Lanka and
came to India. Why have we come together? For a spiritual reason.
Coming together for this common goal, how can we live peaceful lives?
I am doing my best to give you my teachings. Will you be happy if
you have lots of money? No. Will you be happy because you have four
or five children? No. Will you be happy just because you studied
to become an engineer, a doctor or an accountant? No. All these
things will not give you the peace of mind for which you are searching.
The only way to get that peace of mind is to follow spirituality.
Why? Because on the path of spirituality you will not think of yourself
as a big person or a great being. In spirituality, you are surrendering
totally to God. There is Divinity within everyone and there is a
divine power, which is higher than all of us. If you start believing
in that power, then automatically you will get peace of mind.
Otherwise, what will happen? Your ego, jealousy, negative thoughts
and bad habits will continually come up inside you. This is basic
human nature. The animals have similar qualities. They were inborn
in you. So, leave these qualities behind and start on the spiritual
path. When you were born, you were very, very pure but the environment
in which you grew up instilled these things into you. You imbibe
the negative qualities from the background and environment in which
you were raised. If you grew up in the Ashram, you won’t have
such ideas. There is only a small chance that negative qualities
will appear in those who grow up in the Ashram. Therefore, in the
Ashram, you have the chance to have a pure life.
I always tell you not to be idle on the spiritual path and just
do nothing about it. You can at least do something. You can pray
to the Divine whilst you are walking, you can do a little meditation
once or twice a day, you can do some good service to this world
or for others or you can work with children. Children (the children
in the Ashram too!) can be very, very naughty, but you should enjoy
that naughtiness! When they behave like that, remember what you
did when you were young! If you spend your spare time doing meditation,
giving service and helping others, then unnecessary thoughts will
not arise in your mind. However, if you are studying then concentrate
solely on your studies. You can decide what to do after finishing
your studies and then everything will go well for you.
So, don’t forget my main message that there is a great power
above and beyond us. Never forget that power. Don’t always
feel that what you think should happen. Think that what that great
power asks you to do is what you will do. You cannot do anything
by yourself. You feel that you are doing this and that. For example,
you might think that your daughter should marry a doctor, but it
is really God’s wish if she marries a doctor). It is not your
wish that will happen in this world, but only Divine wish will take
place.
Let us think, “O God, everything is happening according to
Your wish. Everything is for good. All that happens is for the best
and will bring me happiness. Pray in this way. Don’t make
yourself tense. Take it easy! Be happy always. I am with you all
and I bless you all.
Jai Prema Shanti, Jai Prema Shanti, Jai Prema Shanti.
Swami Premananda
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